By: Sir. Henry Mahugu

Scope: to look how we can choose a life partner

Time effect

We go through seasons of life. Psalms 90:12. Teach me to number our days right that we may gain a heart of wisdom. 70 yrs we shall live. Plan with what is available. 70 /10 = 7 yrs; every block of 7 yrs is a milestone – you must achieve something.

You might not have enough. From 21 yrs you are released from school and the decisions made are very important to your life is important. If you are to work backwards 70yrs – 20 = 50yrs (retire) – 22 yrs = 28 yrs (have your last born at 28yrs). 28yrs – 6 yrs = 22yrs – 1 yrs = 21yrs. From 17 yrs to 21 yrs you have a lot of time to find and sell you plan to the girls of your age. Once there is cooperation of the girl to execute the plan, go straight and say “you will be my wife”

-Life time development

-Expectation vs. reality

-The difference between Expectation and Reality is Conflict

Self-Identification: Driven by call of God. Amos 3:3 ‘do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so.’ What you see is what you get. Appreciate what you have, take and eat it with gratitude. Each one of them is carrying the image of God.

Assignment: Chose a watch that you like.

-Note the colour of alphabet of the watch you chose and confirm where you fit in the diagram below.

-Learn to embrace different kind of character

-Always have a man with a plan.

Have faith in God:

-2 Cor. 6:14 – 15 Do not be unequally yoked to none believers. Let the Holy Spirit guide you. Pray and fast and ask people to pray and fast with you.

-Romans 12: 1 – 2 do not conform to the pattern of this world.

-Ask the Lord to open your eyes to see and your heart His will.